Are you waiting for the perfect time, the perfect vision board or the perfect moment to get your shit together and finally chase that dream you’ve always wanted? Let me guess, you have a head full of excuses and ideas that contribute to you NOT DOING all the things you should be doing to help you be happy and successful.? Is this stopping you from living a better life and achieving all the things you know you could? Well, here’s some powerful truths to help you ‘Get Out of your own way’ and do something!
Well here is your biggest simple truth my friend…………..Nothing happens unless you DO something. And that means, it is all up to YOU. If you are wanting to make a change and strive for want you want then ask yourself, do these simple truths resonate with you? The only person responsible for you and where you are, is YOU. No one else, no circumstance and NOTHING, NADA is responsible for where you are today or will be tomorrow except for YOU. No exceptions. You can play that victim card and parade that victim suit around all you want, but at the end of the day, it is YOU who CHOOSES. YOU can always CHOOSE to wear it, CHOOSE to believe it or CHOOSE to overcome it! The real truth is that your circumstances don’t define you.
9 Powerful truths that will help you get out of your own way!
Truth #1 There is no such thing as a good excuse.
All excuses are just excuses. Sometimes, it may even seem like you have a really good excuse. But girl, at the end of the day, it is still just an excuse. And if you are willing to let your circumstances define you then you won’t get anywhere.
Truth #2 You’re just too scared to do it.
Fear is your worst enemy. Well babe, being brave and courageous is all about FEAR. It’s about being scared but doing it anyway. Facing that fear head on, and being prepared to fail in order to succeed. Which leads to our next truth.
Truth #3 You just don’t want to fail.
So therefore, you don’t even start.But the real truth here is that you have to fail to win. Success wont come without failures and mistakes. So learn to expect that failure is inevitable to learn from in order to make progress and do better. Without the risk there will be no reward.
Truth #4 You give up when things get hard.
You see obstacles as barriers that you cannot pass instead of challenges that can be overcome. The truth is, there is a solution to every problem, you just have to find it by pushing through.
Truth #5 Your Why isn’t big enough.
Either your reasons for wanting something are not big enough or you haven’t made them clear enough to realise why they are so important to you.
Truth #6 You think you are not good enough.
You truly don’t believe in yourself enough to take on new challenges. Your limiting beliefs override your ability. But the truth here really is, ‘It’s not what you think you are that holds you back , its what you think you are not.’ -Denis Waitley
Truth #7 You just don’t know where to start so therefore you don’t.
The ‘How’ often sets you back, because your mind tries to take you through all the reasons why you shouldn’t do it and that it will be too hard. Well hun, how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.
Truth #8 You’re not owning it.
If you don’t hold yourself accountable, then who will? Genuine accountability creates high performance and if you don’t have it you wont do it.
Truth # 9 Your mindset needs work.
It really is simple, if you don’t believe you can, then you wont. But, if you truly believe that you can do or be something then you will. Having a growth mindset is your most valuable tool in achieving what you want, because as the saying goes, If you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re probably right. You need to go all in, so if you want to be successful then mindset is your biggest tool to success. Mindset, do you need to shift yours?
Is now is YOUR time to shine?
Its time to get out of your own way girl, and start making great things happen. There’s never a good time, except for NOW. If you are wanting to make a change and do something BIG, click the link below to get my free goal setting template that includes proven strategies to help you set your goals, track them and make sure you achieve them. Stop making excuses and get on with it. It’s time to start thinking BIG.